2022.01.23 10:36 ThrowRa_imaginaryf Girlfriend cheated on me and made me believe she was telling me about her "friend's" infidelity
My gf (28F) and I (29M) have been together for almost 8 years now. As far I was concerned she faithful and never gave me reason to doubt her.
Sometime in October she told me about a friend of hers (Fiona) I'd never heard of. I just assumed it was an old friend she'd lost touch of and thought nothing of it. Fiona had cheated on her boyfriend with a new guy and was scared to tell her boyfriend and had wanted advice. We talked about it and I said if it were me I'd break up with her once she confessed. We didn't talk about this "friend" of hers till a couple of weeks ago. She said the Fiona had gotten pregnant; this time for a new man she hooked up with and was going to get an abortion. My gf offered to go with her to the clinic which I chalked up to her being supportive.
She broke her phone recently and was using an old one of mine. She didn't log my account out and I got a calendar notification about a post abortion checkup. I snooped a little and found out that the appointment was for her. I was a little freaked out tbh because I thought I'd gotten her pregnant and she didn't want to tell me and went through an abortion alone. It didn't even occur to me it could've been for her friend. When I confronted her about not telling me she was pregnant she broke down and started apologising. She got pregnant and didn't know who the father was so she got an abortion. The whole Fiona thing was made up. She's been having an affair and Fiona is supposed to be an "alter ego" she used to confess so she'd feel better about the whole thing.
I feel so lifeless. I have never even gone beyond a friendly chat with any woman since we started dating. It's been all about her for 8 years and she threw it all away. I'm mad about the possibility of the baby being mine but now we'll never know. I just feel so empty inside right now and don't know how I can move on from this.
Tl;Dr- gf cheated on me and pretended it was a friend who did. Made up said friend as a means of confessing.
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2022.01.23 10:36 PsychedelicMention "psychedelic mushrooms" in /r/Advice: Friend wants me to buy her drugs after not talking for.. -- "..why, mushrooms and other psychedelics like that should never.."
2022.01.23 10:36 Negative_Reality_152 Young men who suffer from ED have you told any close person about your condition?
Apart from your gf who for sure knows it ,do your parents(mom or dad) know it or you havent told anybody? Is it a good idea or a bad idea to tell your parents?
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2022.01.23 10:36 ClassicSoulboy Relax everyone. Fact-checkers have debunked the Great Reset as a conspiracy theory.
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2022.01.23 10:36 nada_karam lazy
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2022.01.23 10:36 Vitski Nobody talks about how Julia Stiles almost didn't age: Here's What 25 Actors That Starred in Famous Movies From the ’90s Look Like Now
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2022.01.23 10:36 Aggressive_Ninja_789 First feelings for someone since my most significant relationship…
Little recap.. my most significant relationship ended in early 2021. It took about 6 months of grieving to get over her. Let’s end that there. I got back into the dating scene, went on many dates, many were duds, others were okay and one was incredible. That one and I began a friendship that lasted about a month before we started seeing each other nearly everyday. Mind you… she is going through pretty much exactly what I went through with my last relationship right now. She expressed to me after a therapy session that she doesn’t want to lose what we have but isn’t ready for a relationship. I’m understanding because I’ve been where she’s at. But I can tell she is into me. But she says she doesn’t want to lead me on or hurt me by starting something she’s not ready for, but also wants to continue our friendship/doing everything we were doing together. How do I balance continuing hanging/fucking/going on dates/etc without developing more feelings and possibly pushing her away further? She told me she’s “not saying no to us being a thing” but that “she doesn’t know what she wants yet”. Her head is confused just as mine was once.
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2022.01.23 10:36 SEifElDen11 Sneaky spider
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2022.01.23 10:36 Familiar_Escape_4657 legends arceus invisible character?
whats up everyone? i've read basically every thread that has to do with this problem but none of the settings are helping. none of the sprites are showing up but the game works perfectly fine. i seen everyone saying that its not working on amd. does anybody know if theres gonna be a solution to this? im playing on ryujinx btw.
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2022.01.23 10:36 kristishs Pica LuLu kurjera darbs
2022.01.23 10:36 Jikilspkdmsiw Any help dealing with my dad. I am 19F and he just constantly talks down to me and makes me feel like crap in any discussion. It’s so tiring.
I am a girl going through hormone therapy to become more physically representative now that I am an “adult” even though I’ve known I was mismatched from when I was 11. My dad has been so rude ever since I said I wanted to transition.
Everything h says to me is rude and demeaning. And he’s not that way to my brother. When I ask him why he says I’ve put him through a whole lot of “crap” my brother didn’t. If I have an idea on something (environment, science, nuclear power, history, news, etc...) he Immediately has a “fact” to make ms wrong and then I feel like crap.
I look at girls on SM and she these amazing dads who are supportive and loving and give good advice and I want him to be that way for just a few minutes a day and he won’t.
How do I deal wfh this?
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2022.01.23 10:36 Budget_Marionberry32 BitTorrent Sites Safe??
Morning. I’m using a new surface laptop 4. Running windows 11 with defender as a built in firewall and antivirus. I recently joint a long standing torrent site for music sharing. Are these sites safe? I’m about to start a business from home and this is my go to PC- I can’t afford any type of malware or virus with client files that would wreck me. 1) Are the torrent sites safe? 2) Should I add another anti virus as well as a malware program as well? Thank You
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2022.01.23 10:36 washcoldhangtodry What is the best way to prepare linen prior to sewing?
My friend is making a linen duvet cover and is worried he’ll ruin the fabric. What is the best way to prepare it for sewing without damaging it?
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2022.01.23 10:36 akira_him Iskandar Khayon after I read his stuff
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2022.01.23 10:36 Akrasia1 have you read the book oblomov ? I think the oblomov character is md “Because he fell into the grip of Oblomov’s diesease.Unlimited imagination works like a clock, but dreams never come true ; oblomov drowns in a sea of dreams. It is in a constant cycle of thinking and planning “
2022.01.23 10:36 bopeeee My brother (33) is awful to me (F30) and my parents always jump to his defence.
So my brother has been suffering from mental health problems for the past 15 years, has never worked and just lived with my parents. He has treated me awfully over the years - including shouting and insulting me, breaking my things, playing things really loudly the night before final year university exams and telling me to f*** off if I ask nicely if he can turn it down/wear headphones etc. My parents have pampered him as he has missed out on things, including paying for trips to Australia and having full use of the car as and when he wants it. However, I’ve always had to pay for everything I wanted, save for my own car, etc.
However, one of the worst things is that when my brother has left me in the depths of despair, my parents just criticise me for it as I believe they fear they’ll make my brother worse if they have a go at him. My dad has even joined in and has said no matter what he says, I’m not allowed to say anything back to him . This has meant I’ve never been able to really retaliate.
I have moved away but recently I’ve come back hoping things will be better. He has also been receiving help. However he can erupt at absolutely anything. I have also been struggling with mental health problems myself and today I said something innocently and my brother snaps completely and says that my therapist needs to help me with this. I thought this was a horrible thing to say, to make it out like I have a problem when I really do not. My mum also let him carry on saying this to me and my dad never supported me either.
Basically I just feel awful and wanted to tell someone about this. I also want to gain some confidence so I really welcome any advice, thanks.
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2022.01.23 10:36 d0c0ntra António Costa no tempo do professor Cavaco
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2022.01.23 10:36 lastgame12 Recently guys I have been searching for how to pay my debt and I come discovered the china debt trap in the Philippines and click on it and it's very terrible how our nation become so weak and toy for china... Btw not only us but other countries also have debt on china
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2022.01.23 10:36 copperboom7 Just sharing my sweet bonded pair ♥️♥️
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2022.01.23 10:36 Cmdr_Morb Body and all equipment gone on death. Again.
This fucking game at the moment. I don't mind dying in the game, but disappearing bodies and equipment, cooking (Pretty essential in a survival game) is broken. I like the idea of new content, but would much rather a stable game to enjoy first.
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2022.01.23 10:36 darthlios The Backrooms
2022.01.23 10:36 GlenGrunt Ba-doiingg!
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2022.01.23 10:36 jdarrow_ Bin no jf will aber so bald wie möglich mol in arsch gfickt werde. bin mobil also umgebig egal
2022.01.23 10:36 IdoThingsforgood Redditor complaining on Reddit instead of dming about a Redditor complaining on Reddit instead of dming
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2022.01.23 10:36 Joaogg98 BMW M2 and M240i rolling
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